Thursday, June 30, 2016

Waiting for the Lord

The are so many things I've wanted to do and not had time to even begin. I had intentions to do them once I reached the finish line for school. However, once I reached it I realized I didn't know where to begin and that I don't have time to do many things well. On top of that, one thing the Lord has been saying is "wait".

I am paying attention to and trying to learn the the difference between what God is in the middle of and what just seems good. I only want to go where God is leading me and do what He is asking me to do. So I am waiting for Him. 

I have learned that when the Lord says "wait," you wait. Pushing forward when the Lord says "wait" is exhausting and fruitless. When the Lord asks you to wait, it is good news.

Waiting is not lame, it is not punishment, and it is not rejection. Waiting means that something  is coming that is better than what is presently available. Waiting on the Lord means He is He has a good plan and He is arranging the details. Waiting is powerful.

For example, waiting during pregnancy means both the parents and the baby get 9 months to prepare for the amazing moment they will meet. The parents have no ability to form the baby or rush its development. God does that while they wait and prepare themselves. It is also God's grace that He gives the parents time to prepare and anticipate a gift that will change their life forever.







An invitation to wait is  powerful because it's and invitation to see that "the LORD will fight for you; you need only to be still" (Exodus 14:14). Those words were the instructions to the Israelites when they were facing seemingly certain destruction by the Egyptians. The Israelites never had to fight that battle. The Lord won it for them in a surprising and miraculous way.

Waiting for the Lord also displays trust. Logically, taking action is more effective than taking no action. However, God created the universe and knows everything. He is for us and not against us. If He says wait, it's the best thing to do. 

Throughout the Old Testament, the Israelites won battles, not on their own strength or ability, but based on their obedience to the Lord. The other nations feared them because the Lord was with them. Obedience to God is better than human reason. (It's more logical than logic!)





As another example, Jesus commanded His disciples not to leave Jerusalem until they received the gift the Father had promised (Acts 1:4). They waited and received the Holy Spirit, who brought the boldness, power, and guidance they needed to accomplish their mission. The Gospel would not have gotten far if they had ignored Jesus and set out to continue in the ministry they already knew. Waiting in obedience is powerful.

The Lord can accomplish more in a moment than we can in a lifetime. I'm not against working hard, but if one of us if going to accomplish something, I'd much rather it be Him than me. 

I don't even know what exactly I am waiting for. I just know that there's something ahead that no matter how hard I could try, I can't "make" it happen. God is at work, so I am waiting.



If God says wait, waiting is good. Just wait...and see.


Sunday, June 26, 2016

Wrestling with God


God is so gracious that He likes to speak to us. Sometimes He speaks to us about the present moment, but other times He reveals plans that are far into the future.

Often, the bigger the promise, the longer it takes to see it come to pass. When the prophet Elijah told the Shunammite woman she would have a son, the promise was fulfilled in about a year. Abraham waited around 25 years before receiving the son the Lord had promised. However, Abraham's promise was larger. The Lord gave the Shunammite woman a son to care for her in old age. The Lord gave Abraham a son in order to bless all nations through Him. When Isaiah prophesied about the coming Messiah, centuries passed before the promise came to pass.

Although times of waiting can easily test our faith, God's promises are definitely worth the wait.





While waiting to see promises fulfilled, we have a choice of how to respond. If we have no faith we can easily disregard the Word of the Lord, rather than seeking the Lord to see it fulfilled. There can also be temptation to take things into our own hands, like Abraham did. He gave up on waiting for the Lord to fulfill His promise, so Abraham took things into his own hands and bore a son through Hagar. Although Abraham did get a son, this decision brought conflict into his household. It did not bring about fulfillment of the Lord's promise.

As we wait to see promises fulfilled, we will be best served by seeking the Lord and trusting in His timing.

So, we wait. We don't wait passively, but we walk alongside the Lord and pay attention to His timing and his leading. When Elisha asked Elijah for a double portion of his spirit, the promise came at a price. Elisha had to diligently contend not to let Elijah out of his sight until Elijah was taken up.

There are many promises in the Bible that are simply waiting for people of faith to grab onto them and fervently seek the Lord to see them fulfilled. The Lord loves us so much that He intends for us to engage with him. He has given us the great privilege of partnering with Him to see His Kingdom come on this earth. He could do it instantly without us, but He chooses let us play a part.






My experience of waiting has felt like holding on tight and continually asking the Lord not to leave me out. For many years, it appeared that the Lord's promises for me weren't realistic. I watched many others do things that I would love to do, as I fought to rescue my life from being caught up in utter disaster. It would appear that "God's promises" may have just been "my ideas." So, I asked God like a million times to be a part of what He is doing. I grabbed on to even the tiniest opportunity that I felt God had brought across my path, regardless of already being overwhelmed by regular life.

Lately, what has been on my mind is the image of Jacob wrestling with God. Jacob had wrestled all night, but despite being injured and exhausted he would not let go until God blessed Him.

In hindsight, I feel like I have been saying "God, I will not let go until you bless me." As I am beginning to see more and more that "God's plans" aren't actually just ideas I made up, I no longer have to wrestle to ensure do not miss out on God's blessing and greater plans. I'm not sure exactly what they are, but I am certain He is going to show me.

So for me, that's what waiting on God's promises looks like - fighting for it while I am waiting and then stepping back and just following where God leads me.







Saturday, May 28, 2016

Becoming the Bride of Christ



Recently, the Lord has been teaching me more about what it looks like to be His bride. Marriage was designed as an expression of the relationship between Christ and the Church. However, for me personally and for us as a society, that imagery that was designed to to help us deeply relate the Christ has been distorted.

For me, marriage often meant that when life didn't go right or unexpected problems naturally arose, there was someone right there with me to get angry at me about it. It meant unclear expectations that I was expected to live up to. It meant my mistakes were magnified. It meant being responsible for things beyond my control and beyond my ability to fix, but also having a debt for which I could never be satisfactorily thankful for the things than were done for me or given to me.

Many others, in fact I expect that a majority of others, have had equally distorted experiences (either their own or within their family). I say this because arguably around 40%-50% of marriages end in divorce. Of those that remain married, it is doubtful that all of them are experiencing God's best for their marriage. Additionally, many couples live together without entering into the a commitment covenant of marriage. I once overheard the explanation that "My girlfriend knows that if she gets too comfortable and does not take care of herself, I'll leave. I would expect her to do the same." Media and culture normalize the low expectations for commitment and enduring selfless relationships.

All that said, it's easy to lose sight of God's original intentions for marriage. Even more importantly, we can easily lose the deep and complex message the Lord intended to ingrain in daily life. The Lord knows how the value of us remembering who who He is and what He has done, but also how easily we forget. He has graciously created aspects of life as embedded reminders of Himself. When we remove or distort what He has created, we lose valuable insight into who He is.






So then, if society and experience fail us, what do we do? We return to the original Source. We look to the one that is calling us into and everlasting and unfailing relationship. We ask Him to show us who He is. We ask Him to show us who we are to Him. Then we keep asking. As He invites us to trust Him, He shows Himself trustworthy. Then we grow to more and more deeply trust Him.

Additionally, His is communicating a practical message to His bride.

Among other things, the Lord wants us to know Him as protector, provider, and head of His Church. I "know" these things as facts and even from experience, but He wants me to really know them. For example, rather the Him helping me with my problem of  needing provision, He takes ownership of the problem and all I have to do is come to Him ask. Since Jesus is head, it means that the problems that are too big for us become His problems. Instead of me trying to come up with His plans for my life, I trust that He is capable of leading me to where I need to be. There's so much more to it, but that is a small glimpse of what He is inviting us into as His bride.






As He takes the burdens from us that we need not carry, it frees us up to focus on the things He created us for. Personally, I am noticing that the things I do that are of the greatest value are not measurable, quantifiable, efficient, or of monetary value. Becoming the bride of Christ means recognizing and relinquishing the burdens that are not ours to bear and measuring and valuing things differently. It frees us up to glorify His name on the earth.

It means following His lead and trusting Him with the outcome. It means plenty of things that I don't understand yet. It is a journey with Jesus.

The Lord redeems all things. Even as society has largely lost its vision of and value for marriage, the Lord is inviting us into relationship as His bride. He is inviting us to grow in the knowledge of His goodness amd faithfulness. He is inviting us to a place of freedom where we can spend time on the things that are of greatest value. He is inviting us to a walk of ever-increasing trust with Him.

Join me on the journey?


Sunday, March 20, 2016

Grace to Remain Strong in Transition

The thing about walking by faith is...it requires faith. God shows us glimpses of the future He has for us and if we're wise we begin to walk with Him toward those things. Seems simple enough.

The part we don't usually see right away is the journey it takes to get there. It's kind of like a jouney I took to the beach in North Carolina. I was kept the destination in the front of my mind, but along the way I got pulled over by the police, lost down the gravel backroads, held up by a storm and traffic jam, and made probably half a dozen bathroom stops with my kids. I got exhausted and shaken up along the way, but I kept my sights on my destination so I kept pressing forward.

When we persue the things God has for us, there is a transtion from where we are to where God is taking us. Sometimes it's quick and other times the journey is long with unexpected turns. Sometimes it's unusually easy and other times we look back and wonder how we even made it through. We get through by looking to Jesus and holding on to Him only.

Recently, I was reminded that the transition stage of labor is the difficult and intense, but it also means the baby is almost ready to arrive. Usually I have found that the moment where I feel most discouraged and His plans seem the most impossible occurs just before He breaks in and changes things.

Maybe it's because that's when I totally give up on my own abilities, surrender my ideas of what I think should happen, and look to Him alone as my hope.

For example, one day I was driving home from work exasperated with my job, telling God I could not do it anymore, did not want to do it anymore, and couldn't even imagine any job that I could do that wouldn't be miserable or pay very little. Within the month I had a better job that wasn't stressful to me at all.

Another time I was raising money for a trip to Kenya. I had raised less that 5% and I saw that one of my friends has already raised about 2/3 of the money. I told God I would never be able to do it. The following day, a friend put a check in the mail for the remaining amount I needed.

Then Sunday morning that I was in Kenya, I had completely given up on the idea that God ever intended for me to preach. About two hours later I was preaching in a church in Kenya.

I'm not saying that we should focus on how impossible or difficult things are. I am saying that when we inevitably experience discouragement or doubt, we can be encouraged that as we press into God in those moments, hope is just around the corner. All we have to do is hold on to Him and not give up.

Jesus redeems everything. He "bestow[s] on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of joy instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair. " Isaiah 61:3.

We we bring him our difficulties, doubts, and discouragement and He gives us wisdom, hope, and strength. When we come to Him, He give us the grace we need to "press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called [us] heavenward in Christ Jesus" (Philippians 3:14).
It's an adventure and God leads us even when we can not see. It's not always an easy journey, but it's always worth it. God is always with us and He always faithful.



Tuesday, December 29, 2015

Entering the Promised Land




The Lord has led me from a place of captivity to a place of beginning to see His promises fulfilled in my life. As I think back on His faithfulness in my life, it reminds me of the monument set up by Joshua once he entered the Promised Land.

       "On the tenth day of the first month the people went up from the Jordan and camped at Gilgal on the eastern border of Jericho. And Joshua set up at Gilgal the twelve stones they had taken out of the Jordan. He said to the Israelites, “In the future when your descendants ask their parents, ‘What do these stones mean?’ tell them, ‘Israel crossed the Jordan on dry ground.’ For the Lord your God dried up the Jordan before you until you had crossed over. The Lord your God did to the Jordan what he had done to the Red Sea when he dried it up before us until we had crossed over. He did this so that all the peoples of the earth might know that the hand of the Lord is powerful and so that you might always fear the Lord your God.” Joshua 4:19-24

Joshua took time to remember what the Lord had done and set up reminders so that future generations would never forget the Lord's faithfulness. In that same way, I want to take time to reflect. 

I have been amazed by the transformation the Lord has brought in my life and the obstacles He has helped me to overcome. He has been so faithful. My life has begun look more like I intended it to and I feel like there's more than I was expecting. It's like I'm standing on the edge of the Promised Land waiting to see what is next.

I am also reminded that not everyone makes it to the Promised Land. Many get stuck in the wilderness. Of the Israelites who left Egypt, only Caleb and Joshua entered the Promised Land. I feel that it is important to consider what the Promised Land is and how we get there.





First, what is the Promised Land?

1) The Promised land is a place to partner with God to put down roots and become established. In the Promised Land, the Israelites transitioned from their nomadic wilderness lifestyle begin to become an established nation. In the wilderness they were "just getting by" on a day-to-day basis, but in the Promised Land they were able to build and produce fruit. 

2) The Promised Land is also a place where the Lord has prepared victory over the enemy. Well before the Israelites reached the Promised Land, the Lord promised victory over the enemies ahead of them. We will encounter the enemy in the Promised Land, but the Lord has already prepared our victory.

"My angel will go ahead of you and bring you into the land of the Amorites, Hittites, Perizzites, Canaanites, Hivites and Jebusites, and I will wipe them out...I will send my terror ahead of you and throw into confusion every nation you encounter. I will make all your enemies turn their backs and run. I will send the hornet ahead of you to drive the Hivites, Canaanites and Hittites out of your way" (Exodus 23:23,25-27 NIV).

3) The Promised Land is a place to grow and flourish. The Lord promises the Israelites: "Worship the Lord your God, and his blessing will be on your food and water. I will take away sickness from among you, and none will miscarry or be barren in your land. I will give you a full life span."(Exodus 23:25-27). The Lord promises also to drive out the enemies that have been residing in the land, yet explains "Little by little I will drive them out before you, until you have increased enough to take possession of the land" (Exodus 23:30). This lets us know that the Israelite people will continue to increase to the point that they grow to fit an area that is originally too large for them. Similarly, the Lord has promises He intends for us to grow into.

How do we enter the Promised Land? – Success in the wilderness

We move from captivity to the Promised Land through successfully passing through the wilderness. The Bible clearly explains why the he took the Israelites on the long journey: “When Pharaoh let the people go, God did not lead them on the road through the Philistine country, though that was shorter. For God said, 'If they face war, they might change their minds and return to Egypt'” (Exodus 13:17). When the Israelites left Egypt, they were not yet prepared for the battles they would face in the Promised Land. The wilderness prepared them for the Promised Land.


What is the wilderness? 

1) The wilderness is a place of being set apart and establishing identity. The Lord got His people alone in the wilderness and began to teach them His ways. He gave them the Law and began to establish traditions that would set them apart as His own. He also gave them warnings against adopting the practices sinful practices of the other nations residing in the land. 

2) The wilderness is also a place of cleansing. Many of the Israelites complained against the Lord and wanted to return to Egypt. Those whose hearts were turned against the Lord died in the wilderness.

3) Finally, the wilderness is a place of learning to follow His presence and depend of His provision. In the wilderness they could not provide for themselves. They were dependent on God. He provided food daily. He sent a cloud by day and pillar of fire by night to guide them. He kept their clothes from wearing out. In the wilderness we learn that He is trustworthy.


What keeps us from entering the Promised Land?

1) A complaining heart keeps us from the Promised Land. Those who complained against the Lord in the desert did not enter the Promised Land. They turned against the Lord, rather than to Him. Although the Lord provided food for the Israelites, they complained against Him and said things like "If only we had died by the LORD's hand in Egypt! There we sat around pots of meat and ate all the food we wanted, but you have brought us out into this desert to starve this entire assembly to death" (Exodus 16:3). When things don't go the way we'd like them to, we make a decision to turn towards God or away from Him. Turning away from Him keeps us from moving forward toward the good future He has for us.

2) Doubting the Lord and forgetting His faithfulness keeps us from the Promised Land. Rather than believing that God would be faithful to keep His good promise for their future, they wanted to go back to Egypt. If we believe God's promises, we will pursue them. If we do not, we will turn back when things are hard.

3) Fear keeps us from entering the Promised Land. Twelve spies scoped out the Promised Land. They reported back that "We can’t attack those people; they are stronger than we are...The land we explored devours those living in it. All the people we saw there are of great size...We seemed like grasshoppers in our own eyes, and we looked the same to them" (Numbers 13:31-33). They made the decision that they could not go forward out of fear of what they saw rather than faith in the Lord's promise of victory. Fear will keep us from moving forward to pursue the Lord's promises.

How do we enter the Promised Land?

1) Trust. We enter the Promised Land by trusting God. Although we all experience fear, we move forward by saying, “When I am afraid, I will put my trust in You.” (Psalm 56:3). We chose trust God despite our fears or seemingly impossible circumstances.

2) Thankfulness. We enter the Promised by remembering what the Lord has done. First of all, we are thankful because He deserves our thanks and praise. It lets Him know that we value Him and what He has done for us. When I see that my kids value something, it causes me to want to give them more. As we give Him the thanks He deserves, we are also changed as we connect more deeply in relationship to Him. Finally, remembering God’s faithfulness develops trust. As we grow in trust, we grow in faith to step out in the future. As we step out in faith in greater ways, God shows up in greater ways. As we see God show up in greater ways, we step out into even greater things.

3) Faith. We enter the Promised Land by holding onto God's promises. Caleb had seen the same intimidating scene as the other Spies that came back with a bad report about the land, but Caleb's response was  "We should go up and take possession of the land, for we can certainly do it." Caleb believed God and was prepared to move forward when others wanted to turn back. 

I know about these things because I have experienced them. We all experience doubt and fear. Circumstances can cause us to doubt that God is with us and that He has good plans for us. The important thing is how we respond. Getting stuck in doubt, fear, and self pity will keep us stuck in wilderness. Thankfully, it is always the right time to turn turn God. When we do, He forgives us, restores us, and helps us to become free and move forward. If you are "stuck," spend time sharing your heart with the Lord. Turn to Him with what it bothering you and ask for His help (and keep doing it). He is faithful!


How do we enter the promised land and take our inheritance?

We enter the promised land from a place of know the Lord has given victory. We may face battles to take the land, but the Lord has given us victory! If we’re too scared, we won’t go forward.
If we do not trust God – we’ll turn back. If our hearts are not turned towards Him, we cannot enter. He leads us into the Promised Land according to His wisdom and timing as we stick draw near to Him and refuse to turn back.

 “Be strong and very courageous. Be careful to obey all the law my servant Moses gave you; do not turn from it to the right or to the left, that you may be successful wherever you go. Keep this Book of the Law always on your lips; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful. Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.”Joshua 1:7-9







Monday, October 5, 2015

Why Step Out on the Water?



I realize that I am sitting in my safe comfortable home, only partially understanding what I am saying, but I don't want to live on the boat. I want to step into the unknown, the things that are too big for me, the places where only Jesus goes before me.

Why do I want to step out onto the water? I imagine it is the same reason Peter did - he saw Jesus there and he wanted to go after Him. I realize that Jesus can be with us anyplace. However, Peter came to know Jesus in a greater way. Those who remained on the boat, learned that Jesus could calm the wind from the safety of the boat.  Peter learned that He was safe with Jesus even without the boat. He developed a trust in Jesus that is not possible to learn from inside the boat.

I want to step out of the boat because God has no limits, but we are often limited to seeing only what He can do on the boat. I believe He wants to show us more, but we need to trust Him more than we trust the boat. We can ask Him to help us feel safe on the boat or we can ask Him to invite us to experience something greater with Him.

Clearly, if Jesus is not standing in the waves, we should not step out into a raging sea. But, we should be watching for Him and listening for His voice along the journey so we don't miss the invitation.

I don't know what that looks like, but I know what He cares about and where to look for Him. I know He came to preach the Gospel to the poor, proclaim freedom for the captives and recovery of sight for the blind, to set the oppressed free, and declare the favorable year of the Lord (Luke 4:18). He came for the poor, the abandoned, the forgotten, the widow, the fatherless, the hungry, the sick, the oppressed, the lame, the prisoners, the brokenhearted, the sinners...for all who recognize their need for Him. Stepping out of the boat means I get to go with Jesus to see lives transformed.

I'm looking for a place where there is a great need for Him. If I see Him standing in the middle of it, I will ask Him to invite me to come.



Wednesday, December 11, 2013

“Should I Call You Pastorette?”: A Biblical Approach to Women in Ministry



Over recent years, considerable thought has been invested in considering what roles are appropriate for women to fill within the Church.  While significant changes have been, disagreement and inconsistencies still exist throughout the Church. An example of this discrepancy can be seen in a 2010 survey: of the 4 major groups of Baptist Churches that support women in ministry in theory, approximately 1.5% had put their beliefs into practice and currently had women serving as pastors (Hartman 66). Most notably, controversy exists about whether or not women should be free to serve in pastoral roles, which involve teaching and admonishing both men and women in their pursuit of Christ. This issue became personal for me when I encountered a woman who was extremely gifted at Bible study and teaching, yet her gift was rejected and restricted by her prior church due to her gender. She felt frustrated, hurt, and out of place within the church because she struggled to fit into the pre-defined role that had been set out for her. She highly valued Scripture and respected the authority of her church leaders, but wrestled with her identity and was forced to look outside the church and pursue her gift independently from her church.

My friend was not alone in her struggle.  A survey I conducted through surveymonkey.com on Facebook, confirmed the broad range of experiences throughout the church. Respondents came from a range of denominations included 86 women, 8 men, and one who did not specify. Of those surveyed, 74% felt it was biblical for a woman to hold a pastoral role and 26% did not.  These results were fairly consistent with the survey conducted by survey experts with The Barna Group, who found that 24% of churches did not allow women to serve on pastoral staff.  Based on my survey results, most who felt it was not biblical for women to serve as pastors also felt that women were free to serve in the church without restriction – they were content with the current roles. However, those who felt that it was biblical for women to serve as pastors, but had not seen it in their local church felt women face limitations– they were dissatisfied with their current roles. According to Barna, 16% of women feel that their opportunities at church a restricted by gender. While this is not a large percentage, Barna points out that this is out of a population of about 70 million church-going women; this means about 11.2 million women are dissatisfied by their current limitations within the church.

            Eleven million is no small number. Considering that these are real people with a real desire to serve Christ facing a real struggle, they deserve real answers. For this reason it is necessary to consider what the Bible says about women serving in pastoral roles and consider the practical implications on how this topic should be approached in the church today. It is first necessary to examine the positions for and against women in pastoral roles. Next, it is important to examine the experience and results of women who are currently serving in pastoral roles within the church. Final consideration will be given on how to respond in the midst of the current tension.   

            To begin, it is necessary to consider the understanding of church leaders who feel that the Bible explicitly restricts women from serving in pastoral roles. According to the Christian Apologetic Research Ministry website, the most compelling argument against women assuming a role that includes teaching or exercising authority in a co-ed setting comes directly from scripture:

            “A woman must quietly receive instruction with entire submissiveness. But I do not allow a woman to teach or exercise authority over a man, but to remain quiet. For it was Adam who was first created, and then Eve. And it was not Adam who was deceived, but the woman being deceived, fell into transgression” (1 Timothy 2:11-14 NASB).

            “The women are to keep silent in the churches; for they are not permitted to speak, but are to subject themselves, just as the Law also says. If they desire to learn anything, let them ask their own husbands at home; for it is improper for a woman to speak in church” (1 Corinthians 14:34-35).

            These instructions seem quite clear “I do not allow a woman to teach or exercise authority over a man” – this is a direct statement with little room for confusion. Among the Bible study tools available on biblegateway.com, including Matthew Henry’s Commentary, The Reformation Study Bible, and Asbury Bible Commentary, there is little debate over the meaning of these words. ( “Authority” here is translated from the Greek authentés which is not used anywhere else in the New Testament, but seems to imply an aggressive, domineering attitude (Celoria 20).) Paul was stating that the women being address should not teach or exercise authority. Paul then strengthens his argument by referencing the Old Testament order of creation.  Corinthians takes it a step further and instructs the women not to fully engage in learning while at church, yet should wait until they get home to ask their husbands. Taken at face value, woman’s ability to even learn scripture is dependent upon her husband. Taken alone, Paul has clearly laid a blueprint for women to play secondary roles in church.        

Theologians who hold to the literal translation are correct in their value for remaining true to scripture. They maintain an orthodox, not liberal, approach to scripture; that is, they place value in what they believe the text originally meant, as opposed to working backward and attempting to assimilate Christianity to fit modern thought (Bingham 150).  However, theologian G.C. Berkouwer explains the problem with examining only the literal translation of scripture without seeking to understand the full context of its meaning.

“…fundamentalists who lay all their stress on the divine origin of the Bible but neglect and all but deny its human character...think they are honouring God’s word, but their neglect of its human aspect leads them to misinterpret it and to in fact abuse God’s word. It is only as we recognize the human character of the Bible, interpreting each passage in its historical setting that we will interpret it correctly” (Lane 259).

            In short, to understand the meaning it is necessary to understand the context. Just as saying “I love you” to a dying loved one is an entirely different statement than saying “I love you” to the stranger who found a misplaced cell phone. In this case, it may be even more helpful to consider whether telling one’s children to “be quiet” is a statement made with the intention of creating a binding law to prevent the children from making noise from that point forward, or to simply cease from being disruptive in that current moment. It appears likely that Paul’s statements were similar to the later example. According to conservative evangelical New Testament scholar Bruce W. Winter, “Paul’s restrictive words to women are to be read as a reaction against the appearance of the ‘new woman’” (Bond 17). The women of Rome had come into a new age and become “glamorous and assertive women, living a life of parties and self-gratification and choosing their own lovers” (Winter 288). There was a movement of affluent women who had abandoned the traditional values of marriage, child-rearing, and modesty in exchange for promiscuous, lavish lifestyles where they ran the show. This cultural shift had created such a problem within society that the Roman government eventually created new legislation regarding marriage, divorce, and remarriage (White 291). 

Just like new believers in the church today, these women did not transform the instant they entered the church.  We see Paul providing corrective instruction in the proceeding verses “Likewise, I want women to adorn themselves in proper clothing, modestly and discreetly, not with braided hair or gold or pearls or costly garments, but rather by means of good works, as is proper for women making claims of godliness” and then continuing on to say “A woman must quietly receive instruction with entire submissiveness…I do not allow a woman to teach or exercise authority…” (Timothy2:9-13).  It was Paul’s place to create disciples of these women and he was instructing them on proper Christian character. Paul was not in an ivory tower dreaming up theoretical theology, but in the midst of birthing and laying foundations for the church. He was in the mess of the everyday life of the church and willing to do what it took to eliminate disorder or distraction from Christ. A final point can be made here that in contrast to Jewish custom, which excluded women from learning the Torah, women were instructed to learn and ask questions; this was a radical statement coming from a former Jew, Paul (Celoria 21-2).

 A second argument drawn from scripture to restrict women from serving in a leadership capacity is the fact that the twelve apostles were men, the Old Testament priests were men, and the major leaders of Israel were men (Makanjuola 73).  Even studying 2000 years of church history can lead one to the conclusion that it is expected that a majority of church leaders will be men (Lane). However, to take a stance that God desires to entrust church leadership exclusively into the hands of men and desires to forbid women from such a role is to say that he would never put a woman in that role.  The Lord would not desire to break his own commands. In this case, if one is to state that Paul (under guidance from the Holy Spirit) explicitly forbid women from ever teaching or having authority within the church, then it would never be appropriate for a woman to do so.

 Biblical examples exist which contradict this idea. In Acts 16:14-15 Lydia was the first in her town to respond to Paul’s gospel message; it is argued that she proceeded to lead her entire household to faith, which would have required teaching (Celoria 22). Additionally, in Romans 16:1-2 Paul commends Phoebe and instructs the church to “help her in whatever manner she may have need of you.” He tells them to be at her full disposal. The New International Version refers to Phoebe as a deacon, which according to biblegateway.com, “the word deacon refers here to a Christian designated to serve with the overseers/elders of a church in a variety of ways.” Finally, in Romans 16:3-5 Paul sends greetings to his fellow laborers Priscilla (or Prisca) and Aquilla, who appear to have shared leadership of the church that met in their house; it is argued that Priscilla may have been the more predominate minister in this couple since it was unusual to mention the woman’s name first (Canavan 6-7). Either way, it is clear that she was a valuable asset to Paul and the churches. It can be seen in Acts 18:26 that Priscilla was in no way treated as secondary “But when Priscilla and Aquila heard him, they took him aside and explained to him the way of God more accurately;” if Paul had felt that a Priscilla was out of place in her ministry, he certainly would have quickly rebuked her to “restore order” for the sake of Christ. Instead, he did nothing but commend her (Canavan 7).

The encouraging news is that while there are two sides to this issue, proponents of each view draw their conclusions from their understanding of scripture. Next it is important to consider the current situation in the church in light of the biblical backdrop behind this issue. As mentioned previously, approximately 16% of women in the Church feel negatively impacted by the effect of a restrictive view within their current church. Now it is time to view the experiences of those women. One respondent to the informal survey conducted for this paper stated that she she was regularly rejected from youth pastor positions for which she was qualified, receiving responses that stated that the hiring organizations were only interested in qualified male applicants (Hunter). Not only would that be extremely discouraging for a young woman who was called to reach young people for Christ, but in the secular world it would be foundation for a lawsuit. It sends the message “you are not valuable because you are not the correct gender.”

For women who feel called to serve in a pastoral capacity within the church, this was not an isolated incident. An article in the Baptist Theological Journal, Already But Not Yet: The Status of Women Baptist Pastors, explores the experience of five pastoral search committees and  19 female pastors, most of whom were serving as the first ever female pastors in their respective churches. In 2002 Sarah Jackson Shelton, who had 20 years of ministry experience, was hired as pastor by Baptist Church of the Covenant (Hartman 70). For her first few weeks on staff “protestors hurled rocks through church windows, and members of the local Baptist association voiced objections,” due to objections to a female pastor. Thankfully she has thrived on behalf of these obstacles; David Goodwin, a member of the original search committee states “In our church, we've only had male voices and male perspectives (in the pulpit). Sarah has opened up a new faith walk for me. She phrases things differently and focuses on different lines of scripture. I think it's made us a more faithful congregation.” Considering that Paul's original focus had been on establishing order within the church, destroying church property would not have been consistent with honoring Paul's concern in 1 Timothy 2.           

Another example is found in Darren and Jessica Williams’s journey to be hired to co-pastor a church; while several churches were interested in hiring Darren, they ultimately rejected the couple's proposition of pastoring together (Hartman 72).  Although they were seriously considered as candidates, the churches sought to limit Jessica's role. One church considered agreeing to allow Jessica serve as an associate pastor and another asked if Jessica would agree to do nothing more than read scripture during worship for her first several months on staff. During one interview Jessica was asked "What should I call you, 'pastorette'?" They were finally hired by a church where they are able to pastor equally and continue to serve faithfully together. This experience seems to reflect value for tradition more than educated interest in upholding scripture.

Of the 19 women interviewed in this study several had come from churches where members prayed for God to “change their hearts” and friends attempted to "straighten them out" or help them regain a "biblical understanding of female submission" (73).  This means that when they shared their desire to preach God's word and help others live out a faithful Christian life, the church treated this desire as misguided or worse. Regardless of one's take on whether or not women should be assigned certain roles, instead of dismissing what these women felt was the Lord, would it not seem biblical to encourage someone in a desire to nurture the spiritual well-being of others?

Another concern that still exists today is whether or not women will be effective at properly fulfilling pastoral duties (Herrick 36-7). It is intuitive to believe that both men and women are capable of failing.  Therefore, it is necessary only to explore whether or not women have experienced success in pastoral or leadership roles within the church. Multiple examples can be seen in the history of the Pentecostal church. Although the denominational leadership preferred to appoint men as pastors, when they were short on men they would appoint women. One example of a great success is that of Pentecostal evangelist Lula Jones, who pastored the nine churches that grew out of her ministry and performed foundation work for nine others (Roebuck 397). Multiple other women experienced success in ministry during the time that they were allowed to serve due to the shortage of male ministers. Another modern example is Heidi Baker, whose ministry is directly tied to the creation of over 10,000 churches; it is typical for people to be healed of real conditions such as deafness or blindness during her meetings, just as people did when they encountered Jesus during his ministry (Stafford 19). Wouldn't it seem unusual that the Lord would so greatly bless her ministry if he were against it? To ask her to quit preaching would be   to ignore Jesus's priorities of healing people and setting them free, due to a few controversial verses.  While these are just a few examples, the number of women successfully pastoring churches continues to increase (Hartman 65).

            There is an additional objection that even when women have initially laid the foundation, men should take over as soon as the opportunity arises (Slick). However, the Bible since the Bible advises that “the harvest is plentiful, but the workers are few. Ask the Lord of the harvest, therefore, to send out workers into his harvest field” it would seem most effective to have every worker serving at the greatest capacity to which he or she has been called and gifted (Luke 10:2 NIV).

            It can be seen that there is still tension within the Church regarding women in pastoral and church leadership roles. Though there is no quick resolution to the differences in the Biblical interpretation on this issue, it is always necessary to consider how to respond to an imperfect situation in a biblical way. If one's biblical understanding and moral convictions lead one to believe that a woman should not pastor a church, what is the biblical way to respond to a woman who feels the Lord has called her to pastoral ministry? The Bible presents these instructions which are less controversial and universally applicable: “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law” and the second greatest commandment which states “Love your neighbor as yourself (Galatians 5:22, Matthew 22:39 NIV). This means that even when there is disagreement regarding the formality of what titles or responsibilities are acceptable or unacceptable for a person of a particular gender, the Bible is still clear about how Christians should treat one another. The situations described earlier demonstrated failure in this regard. A better way to respond would be to demonstrate genuine love for the woman who has been brave enough to share her controversial desires, while considering how to nurture the desires and gifts that the Lord has given her in a way that does not violate one's own conscience. There may be creative ways to allow her to cultivate her gifts without using formal titles or crossing lines that are considered inappropriate for a woman in that church setting. This would be more consistent with Paul's message and style than actions that cause her to feel secondary to men. Pastor and founder of Mars Hill church in Chicago, Mark Driscoll suggests an inclusive approach despite his beliefs that there are certain roles reserved exclusively for men; he provides the following suggestions for what women can do:

“anything from teaching a class, to leading a Bible study, overseeing a ministry, leading as a deacon, speaking in church in a way that is not preaching, leading worship music, serving Communion, entering into full-time paid ministry as a member of the staff, and receiving formal theological education—basically every opportunity in the church except what the Bible and the elders deem elder-only duties.”

Secondly, the Bible provides instruction for women who feel called to lead in the church, yet find themselves unsupported. It is possible to continue to respect the authorities within the church, while seeking the Lord’s guidance about the perceived call. To maintain a quiet and teachable spirit while honoring those in authority is not at all incompatible with a call to Christian leadership; in fact, it is a necessary part of any leader's spiritual formation (Romans 13:1-2). Christine Cain, a well-known evangelist out of Hillsong Church and international human trafficking activist, provides the following advice for such women who are struggling to be accepted:

             “If your true priority is people and not a position then there is always a place for you. If you get busy being about the Father's business he will come and find you when he is ready to promote you. If God anointed you then he will appoint you...If we are prepared to work in anonymity and obscurity there is always plenty of work to be done.”

            While it is necessary to support women in pursuing the gifts and callings that the Lord has placed in their lives, this is not to be done with the intention of pushing out or replacing the men that the Lord has also called. It should not be substitution, but addition. In America in particular, culture has created a climate that sets men up to fail. Beginning with the radical feminist movement in the 60’s and leading up to even into today, where men are regularly portrayed as fat, dumb, beer-drinking fools, men lack solid role models (Dobson loc 2292-529). There is absolutely a need for male role models within the church who demonstrate integrity and Christ-like character. As discussed earlier, there is a need for more workers to go into the harvest, so it needn’t be a competition. The church needs both men and women in leadership to serve as role models and mentors for those who come along behind them. People need to see something different in the church than the brokenness that is seen elsewhere. Instead of men and women objectifying and competing with one another, they need to see men and women honoring and submitting to one another (Ephesians 5:21).

            In conclusion, given the complex nature, long-standing traditions, and relationship to a woman’s feelings of personal acceptance and worth, it is wise to view the biblical role of women in the church comprehensively and not dogmatically. To say that one’s view is drawn from the authority of scripture means that one must be willing to yield to the authority of all of scripture. For one who feels that scripture prohibits women from teaching in church or leading in a co-ed setting, it is important to consider how scripture says to relate to a woman who may feel called to do so. Higher than Paul’s instructions on how to conduct church (which consists of less than on page on this topic) is the call to love one another unselfishly. What would it look like to love and value who desire to pastor and teach others instead of treating them as misguided and out-of-place? While there are still many obstacles for women pursuing pastoral roles within the church, objections tend to lessen when one has a personal relationship with a woman who is gifted for such a role. As Anglican clergy-person and soon to be ordained priest, Tish Harrison Warren was told by a fellow pastor and friend, "I'm not sure where I stand on women's ordination. But I think you should get ordained" (Warren). When women are viewed individually and not conceptually, they are accepted despite theological uncertainty.

            Considering the entirety of Paul's Pastoral Epistles, one unifying theme is evident. Paul was for anything that furthered the Gospel of Jesus Christ and against anything that hindered it. I suggest that the Church should take that stance as well: if it furthers the message of Jesus to let women lead, let them lead; if it hinders the message of Christ (such as in a Muslim culture where it may cause offense) use discretion. Always treat one another with love and dignity. This interpretation encompasses a comprehensive, not narrow, view of scripture.

Additional helpful resources can be found here:

Paul, Women, and Wives: Marriage and Women's Ministry in the Letters of Paul

Fashioned to Reign: Empowering Women to Fulfill Their Divine Destiny

Powerful And Free


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