Wednesday, December 11, 2013

“Should I Call You Pastorette?”: A Biblical Approach to Women in Ministry



Over recent years, considerable thought has been invested in considering what roles are appropriate for women to fill within the Church.  While significant changes have been, disagreement and inconsistencies still exist throughout the Church. An example of this discrepancy can be seen in a 2010 survey: of the 4 major groups of Baptist Churches that support women in ministry in theory, approximately 1.5% had put their beliefs into practice and currently had women serving as pastors (Hartman 66). Most notably, controversy exists about whether or not women should be free to serve in pastoral roles, which involve teaching and admonishing both men and women in their pursuit of Christ. This issue became personal for me when I encountered a woman who was extremely gifted at Bible study and teaching, yet her gift was rejected and restricted by her prior church due to her gender. She felt frustrated, hurt, and out of place within the church because she struggled to fit into the pre-defined role that had been set out for her. She highly valued Scripture and respected the authority of her church leaders, but wrestled with her identity and was forced to look outside the church and pursue her gift independently from her church.

My friend was not alone in her struggle.  A survey I conducted through surveymonkey.com on Facebook, confirmed the broad range of experiences throughout the church. Respondents came from a range of denominations included 86 women, 8 men, and one who did not specify. Of those surveyed, 74% felt it was biblical for a woman to hold a pastoral role and 26% did not.  These results were fairly consistent with the survey conducted by survey experts with The Barna Group, who found that 24% of churches did not allow women to serve on pastoral staff.  Based on my survey results, most who felt it was not biblical for women to serve as pastors also felt that women were free to serve in the church without restriction – they were content with the current roles. However, those who felt that it was biblical for women to serve as pastors, but had not seen it in their local church felt women face limitations– they were dissatisfied with their current roles. According to Barna, 16% of women feel that their opportunities at church a restricted by gender. While this is not a large percentage, Barna points out that this is out of a population of about 70 million church-going women; this means about 11.2 million women are dissatisfied by their current limitations within the church.

            Eleven million is no small number. Considering that these are real people with a real desire to serve Christ facing a real struggle, they deserve real answers. For this reason it is necessary to consider what the Bible says about women serving in pastoral roles and consider the practical implications on how this topic should be approached in the church today. It is first necessary to examine the positions for and against women in pastoral roles. Next, it is important to examine the experience and results of women who are currently serving in pastoral roles within the church. Final consideration will be given on how to respond in the midst of the current tension.   

            To begin, it is necessary to consider the understanding of church leaders who feel that the Bible explicitly restricts women from serving in pastoral roles. According to the Christian Apologetic Research Ministry website, the most compelling argument against women assuming a role that includes teaching or exercising authority in a co-ed setting comes directly from scripture:

            A woman must quietly receive instruction with entire submissiveness. But I do not allow a woman to teach or exercise authority over a man, but to remain quiet. For it was Adam who was first created, and then Eve. And it was not Adam who was deceived, but the woman being deceived, fell into transgression” (1 Timothy 2:11-14 NASB).

            “The women are to keep silent in the churches; for they are not permitted to speak, but are to subject themselves, just as the Law also says. If they desire to learn anything, let them ask their own husbands at home; for it is improper for a woman to speak in church” (1 Corinthians 14:34-35).

            These instructions seem quite clear “I do not allow a woman to teach or exercise authority over a man” – this is a direct statement with little room for confusion. Among the Bible study tools available on biblegateway.com, including Matthew Henry’s Commentary, The Reformation Study Bible, and Asbury Bible Commentary, there is little debate over the meaning of these words. ( “Authority” here is translated from the Greek authentés which is not used anywhere else in the New Testament, but seems to imply an aggressive, domineering attitude (Celoria 20).) Paul was stating that the women being address should not teach or exercise authority. Paul then strengthens his argument by referencing the Old Testament order of creation.  Corinthians takes it a step further and instructs the women not to fully engage in learning while at church, yet should wait until they get home to ask their husbands. Taken at face value, woman’s ability to even learn scripture is dependent upon her husband. Taken alone, Paul has clearly laid a blueprint for women to play secondary roles in church.        

Theologians who hold to the literal translation are correct in their value for remaining true to scripture. They maintain an orthodox, not liberal, approach to scripture; that is, they place value in what they believe the text originally meant, as opposed to working backward and attempting to assimilate Christianity to fit modern thought (Bingham 150).  However, theologian G.C. Berkouwer explains the problem with examining only the literal translation of scripture without seeking to understand the full context of its meaning.

“…fundamentalists who lay all their stress on the divine origin of the Bible but neglect and all but deny its human character...think they are honouring God’s word, but their neglect of its human aspect leads them to misinterpret it and to in fact abuse God’s word. It is only as we recognize the human character of the Bible, interpreting each passage in its historical setting that we will interpret it correctly” (Lane 259).

            In short, to understand the meaning it is necessary to understand the context. Just as saying “I love you” to a dying loved one is an entirely different statement than saying “I love you” to the stranger who found a misplaced cell phone. In this case, it may be even more helpful to consider whether telling one’s children to “be quiet” is a statement made with the intention of creating a binding law to prevent the children from making noise from that point forward, or to simply cease from being disruptive in that current moment. It appears likely that Paul’s statements were similar to the later example. According to conservative evangelical New Testament scholar Bruce W. Winter, “Paul’s restrictive words to women are to be read as a reaction against the appearance of the ‘new woman’” (Bond 17). The women of Rome had come into a new age and become “glamorous and assertive women, living a life of parties and self-gratification and choosing their own lovers” (Winter 288). There was a movement of affluent women who had abandoned the traditional values of marriage, child-rearing, and modesty in exchange for promiscuous, lavish lifestyles where they ran the show. This cultural shift had created such a problem within society that the Roman government eventually created new legislation regarding marriage, divorce, and remarriage (White 291). 

Just like new believers in the church today, these women did not transform the instant they entered the church.  We see Paul providing corrective instruction in the proceeding verses “Likewise, I want women to adorn themselves in proper clothing, modestly and discreetly, not with braided hair or gold or pearls or costly garments, but rather by means of good works, as is proper for women making claims of godliness” and then continuing on to say “A woman must quietly receive instruction with entire submissiveness…I do not allow a woman to teach or exercise authority…” (Timothy2:9-13).  It was Paul’s place to create disciples of these women and he was instructing them on proper Christian character. Paul was not in an ivory tower dreaming up theoretical theology, but in the midst of birthing and laying foundations for the church. He was in the mess of the everyday life of the church and willing to do what it took to eliminate disorder or distraction from Christ. A final point can be made here that in contrast to Jewish custom, which excluded women from learning the Torah, women were instructed to learn and ask questions; this was a radical statement coming from a former Jew, Paul (Celoria 21-2).

 A second argument drawn from scripture to restrict women from serving in a leadership capacity is the fact that the twelve apostles were men, the Old Testament priests were men, and the major leaders of Israel were men (Makanjuola 73).  Even studying 2000 years of church history can lead one to the conclusion that it is expected that a majority of church leaders will be men (Lane). However, to take a stance that God desires to entrust church leadership exclusively into the hands of men and desires to forbid women from such a role is to say that he would never put a woman in that role.  The Lord would not desire to break his own commands. In this case, if one is to state that Paul (under guidance from the Holy Spirit) explicitly forbid women from ever teaching or having authority within the church, then it would never be appropriate for a woman to do so.

 Biblical examples exist which contradict this idea. In Acts 16:14-15 Lydia was the first in her town to respond to Paul’s gospel message; it is argued that she proceeded to lead her entire household to faith, which would have required teaching (Celoria 22). Additionally, in Romans 16:1-2 Paul commends Phoebe and instructs the church to “help her in whatever manner she may have need of you.” He tells them to be at her full disposal. The New International Version refers to Phoebe as a deacon, which according to biblegateway.com, “the word deacon refers here to a Christian designated to serve with the overseers/elders of a church in a variety of ways.” Finally, in Romans 16:3-5 Paul sends greetings to his fellow laborers Priscilla (or Prisca) and Aquilla, who appear to have shared leadership of the church that met in their house; it is argued that Priscilla may have been the more predominate minister in this couple since it was unusual to mention the woman’s name first (Canavan 6-7). Either way, it is clear that she was a valuable asset to Paul and the churches. It can be seen in Acts 18:26 that Priscilla was in no way treated as secondary “But when Priscilla and Aquila heard him, they took him aside and explained to him the way of God more accurately;” if Paul had felt that a Priscilla was out of place in her ministry, he certainly would have quickly rebuked her to “restore order” for the sake of Christ. Instead, he did nothing but commend her (Canavan 7).

The encouraging news is that while there are two sides to this issue, proponents of each view draw their conclusions from their understanding of scripture. Next it is important to consider the current situation in the church in light of the biblical backdrop behind this issue. As mentioned previously, approximately 16% of women in the Church feel negatively impacted by the effect of a restrictive view within their current church. Now it is time to view the experiences of those women. One respondent to the informal survey conducted for this paper stated that she she was regularly rejected from youth pastor positions for which she was qualified, receiving responses that stated that the hiring organizations were only interested in qualified male applicants (Hunter). Not only would that be extremely discouraging for a young woman who was called to reach young people for Christ, but in the secular world it would be foundation for a lawsuit. It sends the message “you are not valuable because you are not the correct gender.”

For women who feel called to serve in a pastoral capacity within the church, this was not an isolated incident. An article in the Baptist Theological Journal, Already But Not Yet: The Status of Women Baptist Pastors, explores the experience of five pastoral search committees and  19 female pastors, most of whom were serving as the first ever female pastors in their respective churches. In 2002 Sarah Jackson Shelton, who had 20 years of ministry experience, was hired as pastor by Baptist Church of the Covenant (Hartman 70). For her first few weeks on staff “protestors hurled rocks through church windows, and members of the local Baptist association voiced objections,” due to objections to a female pastor. Thankfully she has thrived on behalf of these obstacles; David Goodwin, a member of the original search committee states “In our church, we've only had male voices and male perspectives (in the pulpit). Sarah has opened up a new faith walk for me. She phrases things differently and focuses on different lines of scripture. I think it's made us a more faithful congregation.” Considering that Paul's original focus had been on establishing order within the church, destroying church property would not have been consistent with honoring Paul's concern in 1 Timothy 2.           

Another example is found in Darren and Jessica Williams’s journey to be hired to co-pastor a church; while several churches were interested in hiring Darren, they ultimately rejected the couple's proposition of pastoring together (Hartman 72).  Although they were seriously considered as candidates, the churches sought to limit Jessica's role. One church considered agreeing to allow Jessica serve as an associate pastor and another asked if Jessica would agree to do nothing more than read scripture during worship for her first several months on staff. During one interview Jessica was asked "What should I call you, 'pastorette'?" They were finally hired by a church where they are able to pastor equally and continue to serve faithfully together. This experience seems to reflect value for tradition more than educated interest in upholding scripture.

Of the 19 women interviewed in this study several had come from churches where members prayed for God to “change their hearts” and friends attempted to "straighten them out" or help them regain a "biblical understanding of female submission" (73).  This means that when they shared their desire to preach God's word and help others live out a faithful Christian life, the church treated this desire as misguided or worse. Regardless of one's take on whether or not women should be assigned certain roles, instead of dismissing what these women felt was the Lord, would it not seem biblical to encourage someone in a desire to nurture the spiritual well-being of others?

Another concern that still exists today is whether or not women will be effective at properly fulfilling pastoral duties (Herrick 36-7). It is intuitive to believe that both men and women are capable of failing.  Therefore, it is necessary only to explore whether or not women have experienced success in pastoral or leadership roles within the church. Multiple examples can be seen in the history of the Pentecostal church. Although the denominational leadership preferred to appoint men as pastors, when they were short on men they would appoint women. One example of a great success is that of Pentecostal evangelist Lula Jones, who pastored the nine churches that grew out of her ministry and performed foundation work for nine others (Roebuck 397). Multiple other women experienced success in ministry during the time that they were allowed to serve due to the shortage of male ministers. Another modern example is Heidi Baker, whose ministry is directly tied to the creation of over 10,000 churches; it is typical for people to be healed of real conditions such as deafness or blindness during her meetings, just as people did when they encountered Jesus during his ministry (Stafford 19). Wouldn't it seem unusual that the Lord would so greatly bless her ministry if he were against it? To ask her to quit preaching would be   to ignore Jesus's priorities of healing people and setting them free, due to a few controversial verses.  While these are just a few examples, the number of women successfully pastoring churches continues to increase (Hartman 65).

            There is an additional objection that even when women have initially laid the foundation, men should take over as soon as the opportunity arises (Slick). However, the Bible since the Bible advises that “the harvest is plentiful, but the workers are few. Ask the Lord of the harvest, therefore, to send out workers into his harvest field” it would seem most effective to have every worker serving at the greatest capacity to which he or she has been called and gifted (Luke 10:2 NIV).

            It can be seen that there is still tension within the Church regarding women in pastoral and church leadership roles. Though there is no quick resolution to the differences in the Biblical interpretation on this issue, it is always necessary to consider how to respond to an imperfect situation in a biblical way. If one's biblical understanding and moral convictions lead one to believe that a woman should not pastor a church, what is the biblical way to respond to a woman who feels the Lord has called her to pastoral ministry? The Bible presents these instructions which are less controversial and universally applicable: “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law” and the second greatest commandment which states “Love your neighbor as yourself (Galatians 5:22, Matthew 22:39 NIV). This means that even when there is disagreement regarding the formality of what titles or responsibilities are acceptable or unacceptable for a person of a particular gender, the Bible is still clear about how Christians should treat one another. The situations described earlier demonstrated failure in this regard. A better way to respond would be to demonstrate genuine love for the woman who has been brave enough to share her controversial desires, while considering how to nurture the desires and gifts that the Lord has given her in a way that does not violate one's own conscience. There may be creative ways to allow her to cultivate her gifts without using formal titles or crossing lines that are considered inappropriate for a woman in that church setting. This would be more consistent with Paul's message and style than actions that cause her to feel secondary to men. Pastor and founder of Mars Hill church in Chicago, Mark Driscoll suggests an inclusive approach despite his beliefs that there are certain roles reserved exclusively for men; he provides the following suggestions for what women can do:

anything from teaching a class, to leading a Bible study, overseeing a ministry, leading as a deacon, speaking in church in a way that is not preaching, leading worship music, serving Communion, entering into full-time paid ministry as a member of the staff, and receiving formal theological education—basically every opportunity in the church except what the Bible and the elders deem elder-only duties.”

Secondly, the Bible provides instruction for women who feel called to lead in the church, yet find themselves unsupported. It is possible to continue to respect the authorities within the church, while seeking the Lord’s guidance about the perceived call. To maintain a quiet and teachable spirit while honoring those in authority is not at all incompatible with a call to Christian leadership; in fact, it is a necessary part of any leader's spiritual formation (Romans 13:1-2). Christine Cain, a well-known evangelist out of Hillsong Church and international human trafficking activist, provides the following advice for such women who are struggling to be accepted:

             “If your true priority is people and not a position then there is always a place for you. If you get busy being about the Father's business he will come and find you when he is ready to promote you. If God anointed you then he will appoint you...If we are prepared to work in anonymity and obscurity there is always plenty of work to be done.”

            While it is necessary to support women in pursuing the gifts and callings that the Lord has placed in their lives, this is not to be done with the intention of pushing out or replacing the men that the Lord has also called. It should not be substitution, but addition. In America in particular, culture has created a climate that sets men up to fail. Beginning with the radical feminist movement in the 60’s and leading up to even into today, where men are regularly portrayed as fat, dumb, beer-drinking fools, men lack solid role models (Dobson loc 2292-529). There is absolutely a need for male role models within the church who demonstrate integrity and Christ-like character. As discussed earlier, there is a need for more workers to go into the harvest, so it needn’t be a competition. The church needs both men and women in leadership to serve as role models and mentors for those who come along behind them. People need to see something different in the church than the brokenness that is seen elsewhere. Instead of men and women objectifying and competing with one another, they need to see men and women honoring and submitting to one another (Ephesians 5:21).

            In conclusion, given the complex nature, long-standing traditions, and relationship to a woman’s feelings of personal acceptance and worth, it is wise to view the biblical role of women in the church comprehensively and not dogmatically. To say that one’s view is drawn from the authority of scripture means that one must be willing to yield to the authority of all of scripture. For one who feels that scripture prohibits women from teaching in church or leading in a co-ed setting, it is important to consider how scripture says to relate to a woman who may feel called to do so. Higher than Paul’s instructions on how to conduct church (which consists of less than on page on this topic) is the call to love one another unselfishly. What would it look like to love and value who desire to pastor and teach others instead of treating them as misguided and out-of-place? While there are still many obstacles for women pursuing pastoral roles within the church, objections tend to lessen when one has a personal relationship with a woman who is gifted for such a role. As Anglican clergy-person and soon to be ordained priest, Tish Harrison Warren was told by a fellow pastor and friend, "I'm not sure where I stand on women's ordination. But I think you should get ordained" (Warren). When women are viewed individually and not conceptually, they are accepted despite theological uncertainty.

            Considering the entirety of Paul's Pastoral Epistles, one unifying theme is evident. Paul was for anything that furthered the Gospel of Jesus Christ and against anything that hindered it. I suggest that the Church should take that stance as well: if it furthers the message of Jesus to let women lead, let them lead; if it hinders the message of Christ (such as in a Muslim culture where it may cause offense) use discretion. Always treat one another with love and dignity. This interpretation encompasses a comprehensive, not narrow, view of scripture.

Additional helpful resources can be found here:

Paul, Women, and Wives: Marriage and Women's Ministry in the Letters of Paul

Fashioned to Reign: Empowering Women to Fulfill Their Divine Destiny

Powerful And Free


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